“The happiness of a man is best promoted by the diminution of his desires. The happiness of a woman is best promoted by the diminution of her fears. In the majority of cases, this appears to be the formula which is necessary to conduct to happiness.”

Bertrand Russell The Conquest of Happiness (1930), Liveright Publishing

Commentary

Russell's theory of happiness: it's not positive (pursuing desires) but negative (reducing desires and fears). This aligns with Stoicism and Buddhist philosophy. The person with few desires is more easily satisfied; the person with few fears is more at peace.

This prefigures later hedonic psychology and critiques of consumerism. Russell argues that trying to satisfy unlimited desires is futile; better to cultivate modest desires and equanimity. This applies psychologically and politically: societies that promote endless consumption (stimulating desire) create constant dissatisfaction.