“You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts.”
— Khalil GibranThe Prophet (1923), On Children

Commentary

This line follows the opening of On Children and draws a distinction between affection and intellectual authority that is central to the chapter's argument. Gibran asks parents to give love freely while withholding the expectation that children will think as they do, a position that reflects the reformist educational views circulating in the Anglo-American and Arabic-speaking worlds in the early twentieth century. Suheil Bushrui has argued that The Prophet should be read as a work of practical moral instruction as well as lyric mysticism, and that its pedagogy is directed at readers who must negotiate authority within the family. Mikhail Naimy's biography describes Gibran's own resistance to rigid instruction during his youth in Boston, where he was educated in a public school that he later regarded with some ambivalence. Virginia Hilu's edition of letters records Gibran's wish that his own readers approach his books as invitations to think for themselves rather than as doctrine to be accepted. The sentence therefore sits comfortably within his broader rejection of dogmatic authority. Its English wording is verifiable in the 1923 edition and needs no adjustment for quotation.